Thanks everyone, really, I mean it! I got in trouble today because she saw my solicitation for advice and well she was really mad at me. I guess working in a drug treatment center you pick up some new vocabulary because apparently I "put her on blast" what ever the hell that means. So I can't say anything more about my relationship issues. Big thanks to Intrepid, I took your advise to heart and was pleasantly surprised. After a couple hour nap she was hungry and wanted subway so we went together and I went inside and ordered it for her. When I brought it out to the car I pretended to be a guy checking out this hot babe in the car and tried to lure her into coming home with me. At least she isn't as mad at me now and she went to bed peacefully. Thanks again everyone!!